1.Dating Rules For Women
Guys: If you do not, look away now.
In another article found on this site, you will find a set of rules than men should follow the dating. Similarly, women have general rules that they have faced in entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different, do not take things too seriously here. It has been some controversy over certain documents published in the United States puts in detail the rules a woman must follow to get her guy (or girl). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider the 1995 bestseller "The Rules", explains how women should play hard if they want their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile about this but the fact is that when we grow up, there is a predefined set of dating rules. What happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21 years and then realize that we have to relearn them.
I hope that there was no general rules, but courtship is a ritual. There are things that happen that excite, enhance, create interest and confuse. Dating is a long test for compatibility. We are well? If only we launched together, so the opportunities for long-term happiness is threatened. And yet previous generations managed to succeed far less complex courtship criteria list. Many arranged marriages work too interesting.
Each company has a predefined set of social rules that follow, how and when to eat the way we act in public. It 's a fact that when women date there are some things that can help them be better managed. If we accept that dating is a game, so there are rules of the game. There are winners and losers. If you know the rules of the game, it gives you a head start. If men know the rules you play, you can not change the rules depending on the situation to keep a man guessing. Men love challenges, so you can customize the rules and add them to feel tilted.
You can separate rules in two parts, dating and online dating. The two regions have different rules that women should follow for dating success.
Dating General Rules
Still looks good, what your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick on towels still dizzy. You have the advantage. You're a woman. See the best when you could meet potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.
Never reveal information you do not have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.
Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.
Try to keep fit and involve some fitness regime at a gym. As much as I hate her perfect man loves your body and your mind.
Let your man pay. If interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a taxi.
Make sure you get the flowers. If he does not know what a florist is, dump him.
Do not chase a guy until he fell for you. Sex early in your game plan goes back to ruin everything.
Always keep a guy waiting and never get up early. E 'prerogative of a woman.
Never be available when you want. Do not be at the end of a phone when you call and always leave a message or two before responding.
If he is available Tuesday, you're available Thursday.
Weekend shopping with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.
Keep your man standing on the quicksand of change benchmarks and permanent positions.
Make yourself a good kisser. Men walk if you can not kiss. Practice in a mirror if necessary.
Never talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. Your ex-boyfriends is your business alone.
Never assume anything about the date until you choose to know him better. You can not always see outside.
If someone shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run wind. Life is too short for boys.
If shoes or hygiene are a disgrace, let it fall.
Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures in comparison.
Never show too much or too desperate. It will run a mile. It is he who does the hunting.
If the guy in the corner is great, go get him and create a need for you home. Never wait for men to come to you because you can see him go with another.
You may well be the man for all bodily functions not only trying to show them early.
If you want a child, do not mention the dates first.
Do not ever criticize his mother unless you want to be left alone.
Online Dating Rules
Always let them come to you, not chase them via email.
Prevent someone who is irritating at this time.
Post better picture and more vampish you can find.
Do not respond to instant messages with clever opening lines.
Stay out and let yourself be hunted.
Always respond to emails at least 3 days of receipt.
Never give out your email address or real phone number.
Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn.
Make sure your username is awesome and sexy and enigmatic.
No entry for hours. short, quick strokes are best.
Do not assume that the person you are referring to is destitute or sad.
Never respond to emails on weekends. Wait for the day.
Not good as your sexual performance is in your profile.
If you do not want to date married men is specified in your profile.
A man who does not answer your e-mail within three days should be ignored.
Make sure that the level of humor can come across the text.
Do not chat, hundreds of men at once. The delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right is out.
Do not even think to misrepresent the size or description. They will discover.
Look so cool and sophisticated for best results
Ladies, never forget that you are sexy and desirable woman in the world is yours. Whenever men are hunting and still afford to be the coach. Always be safe and never risk in order to attend an appointment. Always use a secure Web site appointments.
It is the language where you do not need words. Women have made hundreds of years to attract the man they want. Speak fluent body language will ensure that you will be trained in order to attract the right man and sends a message of love to the evil man.
Eyeing Up Price
The more eye contact you establish with the objective best. Start with a few glances to the side. Then start with direct eye contact. When he turns to meet your gaze, your eyes immediately below and smile to yourself. This will tell him you saw him and he is embarrassed that you made - a sure sign of interest. Then be brave and try to keep your eyes and flash a smile.
If a man gives his eyes and does not interest you, look away from him and not look back on it. During a conversation, staring at the ceiling and around the room also shows a clear lack of interest.
First impressions count
You leave your house ready to go to a party when you see your beautiful neighbor, and he does not give you a second look. Why? Because you are not dressed your best. When you enter a room, most people look to see who came in. It's when you need to make an impression. Looking your best will make you feel at your best. So make sure before you leave your front door, looking your best. You never know. You just might just attract the attention of the handsome neighbor.
Hand Job (no, not what you're thinking!)
Even without direct contact, your hands can send powerful messages. There are several ways to convey what I want to meet someone. Keep your hands loose sample, which is open to him. Use your hands to caress objects, such as the rim of his glass, locks of hair, or the sleeve of his shirt in a rhythmic way (as opposed to turbulent) can be a sensual act. And for the brave, try to choose to remove the lint from his jacket, touch it to emphasize a point, or using the "accidental contact" to reach the salt.
Hands jammed in his pockets, window cleaning, or balled fists are all bad signs. Finger tapping, percussion, clicks, or sign on to the signals.
Stand Out
Posture is one of the signals will tell. The open position is evidence of a man open. Turning the body to the man you are chatting with, keep your feet on the ground and leaning forward are actions that show interest. In addition, a slightly tilted head, border and auction legs and pushing the chest forward give the message that you are interested.
Sit back, drink high in front of you, turn your body away, or rest their feet on their toes will tell a person that does not interest you.
Additional tips
I hope now you have a game plan for when it's time to get down and dirty, or when it is better than the white flag. Here are some more tips when they try to perfect your body language:
You know you're doing really well, when you start mirroring each other's body language and gestures.
Do not tease him by offering more of what you intend to follow through. This can lead to very bad situations.
Chain smoking, very drunk, or who have eyes only on their own plate of food available to you the best game standingfor body language.
If you try your hand at him and he does not immediately end the mission.
Following him through the night will only serve to make you look desperate and need.
And finally, if all else fails, you buy a T-shirt that said: "Looking for Love."
3. Reflections On Possessive And Jealous Men
The biggest problem in our world of dating men are jealous and possessive. While they are desperate to find a woman who can love and adore, once they found her possessive men most often do not think they can hold her hand because of the lack of self confidence, self esteem and self confidence. They really believe they deserve the girl so they try to subjugate its effect on them and increase the feeling of the wife of dependence. It is very common nowadays that people are increasingly uneasy about what they are and lack self-esteem.
The first obstacle is that a woman is faced with not being able to spot a jealous and possessive in advance. He is charming and handsome, which has the world at his feet as it seems and they have absolutely no reason to believe that he is not Prince Charming. And maybe he is Mr. Nice Guy, at this time. But if you know then what you later discover things would be much easier.
I first spotted possessive-man syndrome while working for several years in a regular job in an English town. At the end of the day I go home to my apartment and was always impressed by how many boyfriends Sat patiently in their cars waiting to pick up their girlfriends and wives work. I dare say, in retrospect, some were genuine, but it took me a few months to see the same faces before I cottoned on the fact that these guys were not around for the best reasons. The cat is out of the bag by a friend who said she could never go for a drink after work, because his friend did not like and he always insisted he has gathered from work at 5:00 am on the dot. If she was going nowhere, it must inform him in advance.
This shocking revelation may be, is known to many women readers, but the boy did not realize then how big a problem. The key question seems to be a man of low self-esteem. In general, possessive and jealous guy believes his woman stolen from him. He did not trust him or his love of words and ignores the fact that he stays with her. He feels that plotting to escape at every turn, looking for a way out and did not really love her at all. Why? Simply because he feels he deserves it believes deeply that he could do much better than him.
This makes the possessive man with a dilemma. If she run away, so how I can make your stay. Easy, what I will do is take me, he loves me and inspired me and not need to be anywhere but with me. Even if I go out every night with my male friends. The man did not love what you do not understand why she loves him more. But he needs to feel he is doing, so you need to have demonstrations of how it will go for it. It will promote a positive attitude to stay home together and group social activities will be turned off. At home, where you can see.
As the relationship develops a jealous person can find a way to make sure you're there for him. It creates an artificial situation where he needs help and support, relating to the social routine. Instead of meeting friends for you to help him. Of course, after all this is part of building a romantic relationship. After all, you want to spend as much time as possible for the man you love. Little by little is left for daily life and friends and also spend some 'time to show your friends how you really are true friends. He is to isolate you in your needs.
Once he did, also criticize you and make you feel bad about yourself to make sure they have very low self-esteem. If you do not feel good about yourself then how can anyone want. He will tell you how lucky you have it and always love you for who you are. And, finally, establish the degree of dependence (and fear), if you really believe what he says is true. Your own identity becomes a thing of the past and his friends refer both to ignore or make excuses.
At this point, now is where she wants, isolated and dominated. He feels better about yourself, because they depend on him, but never his trust, because there will always believe that there is a conspiracy to escape. Do not like it, after all. He needs constant demonstration and proof that you do. Your friends and not know everything if they are suspected. Always going to be the best in social groups. Soon you will reach the point where the fear of social out if you have trouble when I get home. This my friends, is what your life is about. This is not why we date and have relationships. Yes, everyone wants to feel desired, wanted and loved in the eyes of our lover. But not like this.
A bit of jealousy, ironically, can go a long way. Women (and men) like being loved and wanted and secure an arm around the waist that design can be fun. Small amounts of jealousy (very small in a playful way) can be attractive and sexy. But knowing when things have gone too far as the questions. Many women have told me that a man has not a jealous bone in your body can not really love her. A man has to demonstrate that it cares about the drawing hand. Both sides feel good about this. But be under control.
There are several reasons why men are more possessive in today's society and we all have our own theories. It is possible that the increase of women at work and in determining their own financial independence and social, that men feel increasingly threatened. Their traditional role as husband and father, the dominant voice in the home, is increasingly archaic and has little place in today's society. Instead, they are desperately trying to reposition themselves in a relationship, and what their new role in reality. But old habits die hard and men still trying to cling to the way they were raised. It will take time to learn that men are not always the main objective in a relationship and must give equal attention to the needs of their partner because they give you. And to be honest, I do not expect miracles overnight.
Men who do not feel good about their domestic roles, their lack of masculinity, their frustration at their poor career, their success economic weakness of the dominant influences of parents and the general lack of well-being may contribute to the progress and trends possessive . Owned by someone does not have them. To be loved is an open invitation, not something to be caught and be imprisoned.
A happy man of confidence, assertiveness did not ask about possession and jealousy. No, but some aspects of a relationship can be shared, also the treasures of his girlfriend and their independence assured set of values, as it does on him. Relationships are about sharing, but also to maintain the freedom of self-expression and personal identity. Trust relationship also innate.
There was an interesting article recently in a national newspaper about how dominant career women with great success and financial wealth often still had very dominant partners in the country. Do not confuse manliness and masculinity with possessiveness. Jealousy and possessiveness is to deplete the trust, respect and dignity. It is to subjugate and report the needs of the person aggrieved by the wishes of the stronger. It has no place in our modern world.
Jealous and possessive men are sad and pathetic creatures, which are all too common nowadays. As a woman you'll never have to tolerate them and they really do not deserve. A huge irony involved is that there was a guy in a relaxed and confident, would have never lost to you first, but his low self-esteem means that it has had to happen, what they feared most. You can ignore. If you're reading this and have yet to go, so you'll need friends and family to watch the person you are dealing with serious psychological problems. Try to keep and use psychological measures that can do whatever you need him and come back. Work on the weak points you have already created for you.
But trying to be encouraged. Many women were in the same situation and moved on. Although it is very difficult. As women increasingly confident in their lives, some people fall becomes less self-esteem. There are a lot of really nice guys out there and date, and the person you love is not what makes you happy, what he says. It may take a long time to heal some of the traumas they have experienced, but the fact is, it's your life and the world, and if you do what you want to make you happy, that is 100% your prerogative to do so. We do not need jealous and possessive men in this world and first in themselves, without help, the better.
Warning signs:
Horrified and tips on how you should dress
Too worried about where you are going when socializing
The obligation to supply of unique social
Interference with your social plans
Excessive calls to know the place
Too strong for the nature of any
The inability to communicate and discuss
He lay down and everything that makes you a feeling of inferiority
The lack of prospects and low self-esteem or lack of confidence
connotations dominant in the household
mood and aggressive attitude reasonable to detail
Mr. Right does not exist? He's out there somewhere? I find it?
Mr. Right is an important issue for many women and an inspiration of hope on a daily basis. Yes, there is probably Yes, it is probably the game. Yes, you will find! Naturally, in all our lives, we have objectives, goals, ambitions and aspirations of small and large. These are the benchmarks and poles to keep us busy and positive. That's what makes us human. In recent years the terms Mr. Right and Miss Right have been used and cliche. It's almost as if we have a picture on our wall, an exhaustive list or summary of the special, the person must submit to get a foot in the door of "potential" interview.
Most of us can deny that we are pushing for Mr. Right, which we hope, that chance has a hand in bringing us Mr. Right. Many of us agree that we have a small but significant "list" and yes, we accept that there are requirements for what is not negotiable, but they are quite small. Or are they? The fact is that decades have passed, we became much more sophisticated, like humans, as individuals, amateurs and the latter. We are adults, we have a good salary and a nice house and are well trained in the course of the world. Therefore, it is reasonable that we seek someone to match, fit, adapt, accompany, facilitate, right? That is the question.
The fact is that Mr. Right also has a list of your desires and needs only a small course, but still a list and check that it is their heritage at this time. He wants someone young person, well educated, someone beautiful and fit. We are outraged, the surface to mourn. Typical of the man sigh. However, we are better? Look at your list and look very carefully at what or who is her perfect man. And then look again. Are you sure that your first list of ticks is feasible? Yes, or is willing to negotiate? Well if you are satisfied with your list. So what?
Are you ready to go and get Mr. Right, or wait for him to come to you? Many women told us they are waiting for Mr. Right. The word "anticipate," "worries me. Wait means to you, a man by chance, perhaps the design and you can check their property and check it out and decide someone is not responsible for the list. Maybe not, but remember this is my friend, Mr. Right is looking for his Miss Right? How much work did you get that Miss Right, or if you accept who you are, and it's right for you? If he had made a hole in your life if he was really Mr. Right or accouterment, properties, trinket that you get bored?
What I wonder eligible men more than anything these days, "where all the pretty girls left." Consider these words carefully. These men do not ask where are the mats, mouse humble slaves in the country. Not at all. It is not what we ask is that all the women went to not have a huge list, as their arms. Most men just want someone to love, someone who can enjoy their own way and they can feel special and share it with. The problem for them is that you can not find because they are constantly under pressure from the checklists. They are told they must adapt and integrate, try to fill their market share list, then face Miss rights there.
As a potential Miss Right you owe it to yourself to complete some tasks. Take a long hard look at your list and ask yourself exactly how to be flexible. Second visit of Mr. Right and how they are earned honestly. Third, do not be fooled about their own potential, but not compromise on the ideals either. Fourth, is placed in the public square and go after her Mr. Right.
Do not play the waiting game because you do not want to spend the rest of your life knowing that your Mr. Perfect is married to yours another when he could have been. And finally, compromise is the key reality for all things should be Mr. Right, so try and balance of trying to be something your Mr. Right not to be missed.
